In His Own Words
About Him
Old fashioned morals - dancing, good food & wine. Opening doors, standing when a lady walks in and disguising flatulation.
Religious but avoid Bible thumping fundamentalism. Enjoy stimulating conversation & confess to having a naughty side. Love the sea, the mountains & the bush. I know "the secret", but "what the bleep". We can all be subject to the laws of attraction.
A sporty Durbanite, crave the great feeling of being fit.
Currently road running is my sport. Support Sharks, Dolphins, KZNA. Have sailed & fished.
Had the privilege of the friendship of super people, young and not so - female and male - open-minded and bigotted - religious and atheistic. In short I have led an eclectic life in many places, with little regret.
Favourite book "Hold My Hand I'm Dying" by John Gordon-Davis. WHY did Stieg Larsson die? Of course I have read Robertson Davies.
My music: Beethoven, Verdi, Frank Sinatra, TOTO; U2, Barbra Streisand, Smokie, CS&N, Shania Twain, Buble, Travis, Snow Patrol, Puccini, Paul Carrack; Propaganda, David Gray, Live, Sarah Brightman, Cold Play, Jack Johnson, Andrea Bocelli, Josh Groban, Robbie Williams & Will Young. Mostly - The Eagles!
I enjoy cooking for friends after a day in the sun.
My favourite indulgence is discussing history & philosophy. Conspiracy is fascinating and can be fun talk.
Favourite sound - genuine laughter.
Least favourite - a child crying.
Favourite activity - healthy debate.
Least " " - quarreling.
Favourite movies - Somersby, The Mission & The Last Waltz.
" song - Mr Bojangles.
" city - Victoria, Canada.
Lived in London for 6 years and loved it, but home is Durban.
Lonely - NO, but in Paris for the first time I was struck by the thought - this is not a city for singles.
In the 70's I shared a friendship with a wilful Siamese with typically beautiful blue eyes.
I called him Julius, he called me in his own unique fabulous voice.
I still miss him.
About His Ideal Match
A lady - all of you are.
A simple soul.
Suzie from the jacket of "Hold My Hand I'M Dying". (Sorry, I am a soppy romantic).
Someone who makes it easy for me to be a gentleman!
Caring, but not clingy.
Sharing, but able to stand on her own.
Needs & gives space.
Unconsciously intelligent.
Sporty but not necessarily active. In good shape, but not an obsessive dieter. Dresses well with a tendency to the casual.
Likes good food (braai - Italian & French cuisine), red wine & good company.
A lover of music & appreciates art. Indulges my need to make a curry every so often.
Enjoys the outdoors, the beach, the mountains & the bush.
Tolerates a sporting companion.
It is great to exercise together!
Has read Jung, Fromm and Lao Tzu but not Socrates.
Tanned & lovely, but not "beautiful".
ROMANTIC!
A guy can dream can't he?
What His Friends Say
Arlecchino hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban (Glenashley), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Disabilities: |
I struggle with mobility |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intellectually Challenged |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Cricket; Cycling; Field Hockey; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Mountain biking; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Snooker; Surfing; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
