Living on the edge and taking in the view
30–Never Married–Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
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|Country of Origin:||South Africa|
|Location:||Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa|
|Height:||184cm (6' 0.4")|
|Hair Colour:||Dark Brown|
|Other Languages:||Ask me later|
|Marital Status:||Never Married|
|Looking for:||Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage|
|Want Children:||Ask me later|
|Daily Diet:||Eat healthily|
|Occupation:||Artistic / Musical / Writer|
Why should you get to know treb8?
Please don't get to know me. Seriously. I'm not your type. I'm too good for you. Funny. Handsome. Some pennies in my pocket. Confident. Easy going AND emotionally stable. I'd just make you frustrated. The truth is I have so much going for me that I would probably end up intimidating you, to the point that you'd retreat into your 4 year old self, hiding behind your mommy's legs, only to peek out every now and then to make sure I'm not a dream. But I am. Every night before you drift off into a magical world of rainbows and ponies, I'm standing there in shining, white armor ready to sweep you off your feet. To take you to a place in far far wherever-land. But the place doesn't matter. It's who you're with that counts..
I don't tolerate fools. Or idiots. Or people who hang out here to get their ego stroked, lapping up each sop who messages them telling them how beautiful they are only to respond with no intention of ever taking those courageous steps to get know them better. I will not tell you how beautiful you are. Yet. You already know that. Beauty is common. I've sampled those delights. Look around, everyone's beautiful. I'm looking for someone with substance. My standards have risen to a point where I've lost patience with mediocrity. Call me cynical? That's just a jaded perspective. Don't be ignorant. I'm a lover, not a fighter. Please don't mistake this for arrogance. I'm simply aware. I know that probably sounds arrogant. Dammit.
Honestly, I'm just as clueless as the rest of you clicking away at profile after profile, hoping to find a spark as you stare down a 100 different pictures of people trying to look their best. There's the guy with the great abs. Hey, he dresses nicely. Okay, that guy is DEFINITELY too old for me. I don't have a best. I'm throwing caution to the wind. I'm asking for a chance. I'm asking for an adventure. I'm asking for a beginning that may or may not have an end. And I'm asking for someone with enough guts to join me to find out.
Just do it.
P.S. I'm a dog person.
He describes his ideal match thus:
I'm looking for someone keen on the possibility for something real.
Truth: I don't have an ideal match. I wish I did, it would make this all much easier. I only know that when I meet someone face to face and we chat and laugh having a good conversation, I feel warm and fuzzy inside. And I like that feeling. When there's a spark of chemistry, I don't ignore it.
What triggers that spark, I don't have a clue. That's why I'm here. To meet people I would otherwise NEVER, EVER meet in any other circumstance.
At the end of the day you make your own destiny, whether you're aware of it or not. That's what we're all trying to do here.
Best of luck to you all.
About His Ideal Match
|Country of Origin:||Anywhere in the World|
|Location: (Decidedly important)||Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa)|
|Age Range: (Moderately important)||18 - 35|
|Height: (Moderately important)||148cm (4' 10.3") - 198cm (6' 6.0")|
|Body Type: (Decidedly important)||Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous|
|Looks: (Slightly important)||Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive|
|Has Photo:||Not important at all|
|Ethnicity: (Moderately important)||Asian; Black/African; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed|
|Religion: (Moderately important)||Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox|
|Marital Status: (Decidedly important)||Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed|
|Have Children: (Decidedly important)||No|
|Education: (Moderately important)||Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral|
|Occupation: (Moderately important)||Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture|
|Income: (Moderately important)||Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat|
More About Him
|Fashion Sense:||Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)|
|Disabilities:||I have none|
|Hair Style:||It has its moods|
|Body Art:||I don't have any|
|Sense of Humour:||Witty|
|Ruled by:||The heart|
|Party Behaviour:||A social butterfly|
|Personality Traits:||Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Sarcastic; Silly|
|Valued Qualities:||Chemistry; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Sexiness; Tolerance|
|Favourite Clothing:||A wicked satin teddy|
|Music Preferences:||Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Opera; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock; World|
|Books:||Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi|
|Movie Preferences:||Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns|
|Pace of Life:||Manageable|
|Time at Work:||I work part-time|
|Cooking:||I can't or won't cook|
|Dining Out:||I eat out a few times a week|
|Sport Involvement:||Bored to death|
|Animals:||I like them Well Done|
|Family Size:||I've got sisters|
|Family Closeness:||We're very close|
|Current Relationship:||I'm single|
|Reading:||I love it|
|Turn-ons:||Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking|
|Retirement Plans:||Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World|