In His Own Words
About Him
Please have a recent public profile picture I can see, or don’t waste our time.
I am a tall, patient, supportive, loyal, intelligent, technically adept including being able to use almost anything electric, including my least favourite of the vacuum cleaner/iron . Just an honest, responsible, compassionate, romantic man who is cuddly to boot!
I love intelligent company and using technology, but need to meet people.
If we click, you’ll be my friend and I’ll be yours. I'll be with you as much as you want me and hope the reverse is true.
I'm mostly an indoors person who enjoys messing around on the computer or one of my indoor hobbies. I am more than happy as a bachelor but feel the need for company and some different activities. I want to be with you whilst we complete the activities together. Whether it's coffee or lunch somewhere after a road-trip or just having a cuddle together.
Outdoor living/camping was enjoying a game lodge but the prices have gone out of reach. I am quite happy with some home comforts and maybe chatting around a braai or playing cards/board game with you as company.
Not to say I don't enjoy a picnic in the outdoors or cooking a steak on the braai while we watch the sun set.
I watch what I eat and will tackle most things on the hoof way before something from the sea, although a good Hake and Chips can't be beat. This helps keep the Size 34-36 jeans fitting comfortably.
My cooking skills are elementary and open for lots more training, but I have been known to cook up the odd meal on occassions.
My mother lives with me as I am her retirement plan as old age homes are for people who aren't gardeners.
There's way more to tell, and lots for me to find out about you, so add me to your favourites, possibly drop me a message and lets take it from there. I may only send you a one-liner and that does not mean I am not interested, it means I'm waiting to see if you'lll reply.
We are both stuck on this dating site so lets break the ice over a cuppa tea or coffee!
What have you got to lose?
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking first for a friend.
A friend with whom I can have an intelligent conversation.
A friend who takes me for me.
A friend who likes the odd rugby game on TV over a weekend but who is not a sports nut or has to be at the trendiest spot on the social calendar every weekend.
A friend with cooking interests.
Someone I can trust with all my heart and with whom I can share everything, my triumphs, my fears, my fantasies, my dreams.
A woman to whom I feel attracted, whom I can put my arm around, not battle to get around.
A woman friend who might meet me somewhere quiet to sip a bottle of wine, cuddle in my arms, whilst we talk rubbish while the sun sets.
A woman whose company I can grow to love whilst exploring the wide open spaces, watching movies, or crying on each other's shoulders.
A woman who is true. I am not interested in relationship games or lies. If you hold back because of past experiences, tell me and I am willing to at least try to assist you in overcoming whatever it may be.
A woman who, if the chemistry/sparkle is there, wants me to be with her more, it’s our choice.
Without chemistry,friendship stays at the odd coffee, meal or whatever we want to do during our time.
If you are in my area and have a recent PUBLIC picture on the site, are the right age(within reason), add me to your favourites or send me a message and lets take it from there.
I Challenge YOU to face the world and show your possible suitors what you look like, you will undoubtedly win.
You look at the cover of a book before opening it, so at least let me see your cover before I might show an interest.
If your profile pic shows you like a bean-pole don't meet me carrying the weight of a Japanese Sumo wrestler.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Tokai), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
185cm (6' 0.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa; Canada; United States; Austria; Guernsey; Ireland; Isle of Man; Jersey; Liechtenstein; United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Southern Peninsula; Southern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 49 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 184cm (6' 0.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have a hearing impairment |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Soap operas |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
