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ThatUnusualMan

65 – Pretoria (Centurion), Gauteng, South Africa

"...and now I think of my life as vintage wine, from fine old kegs...it pours sweet and clear.."

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Modified: A week ago

Online: Yesterday

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Pretoria (Centurion), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
65
Star Sign:
Virgo
Height:
178cm (5' 10.1")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Pretoria (Gauteng, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
45 - 59
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 174cm (5' 8.5")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I wrote this poem for that one special woman who is seeking for me , as I seek for her. She will read and say.."This is me!"


'Solitary spread

body craving, mind pondering

in quiet of night

awake again she lies

wondering

'Who is he?'


With each romantic love song

her heart in quiet desperation

summonsing mine

as from within

prose from ancient sonnet springs

'Oh how I love thee'


In crowded rooms

and busy places

her eyes endlessly scouting faces

'Where art thou?'


When beautiful moments life present

of wondrous amazement

or deep reflection

her hand searches

reaching, probing mine

'Oh how I need thee'


A yearning springs from deep within

echo's of longing for me only

The love of her life

'Dearest will I ever find thee?'


Unconverted by denial

or external feminist bravado

quasi self-sufficiency

or pseudo-independence

her nurturing sensitive female psyche

unseen original glorious true design

demanding fulfilment

found only in mine

'Wilt thou complete me?'


Urgently

tenderly yearning

her soul mate's soon appearing

her once in a lifetime

greatest love

her 'raison d'ętre'


Deep is calling unto deep


Life's past disappointment now mended

by dreary winter seasons melancholy passing

Heart again willing to embrace

love's illusive second chances


Of being fully alive

vulnerable again

love's celebration uniquely thus designed


Of unveiled face-to-face communication

subtle sexual innuendo

veiled in witty repartee

intimate heart-to-heart self-revelations


Of kindred spirits

two lovers entwined

by candle light soaking

abandoned to another

of sensual aliveness

occillating in intoxicating resonance

heartbeats racing

neurons firing

juices flowing

faces changing

basking in ecstatic afterglow


Of countryside meanderings,

wine farms

side walk coffee shops

fly fishing

fine whiskey

fire places

books aglow by red wine


Of silent togetherness

moments of joy and sorrow

bearing another's burden

life inevitably brings'

About His Ideal Match

Her heart has the capacity to embrace a unique and rare individual whose life has not been devoted to the accumulation of material possessions but to a cause greater than self-interest and to riches beyond financial gain

She may be the girl next door, or successful in her own right and established in a life of her own

She is not someone perfect, nor one who has never failed or made mistakes, yet enriched and matured by life's trials , having gained wisdom to appreciate life's illusive second chances

She is a lady, reasonably smart, fairly attractive, able to appreciate the value of an unusual man


I stand accused of having 'lots of character', of 'being a real gentleman', an 'interesting person', of being 'caring and unconditional and 'having wisdom'

I admit to being a romantic, to feeling deeply and being able to shed tears unashamedly

Capable of great tenderness but also strength, a steel hand in a velvet glove

As a man of peace I'm allergic to unfairness pettiness and strife


A highly individualistic seeker after truth. Have lived life outside the box, marched to a different drummer and charted my course by inner spiritual convictions


I have established my masculinity, demonstrated fatherhood and the capacity to love deeply and faithfully


I am a deeply spiritual person yet aware of my humanity, my frailties and blessedness


Unattached for a decade, my children are independent and I consider myself, as their Dad, of all men indeed the most blessed


Having discharged my family responsibilities, I am free to relocate anywhere


As a Christian Thinker I unapologetic live in the light of an eternal dimension, devoted to the redemption of mankind through Jesus Christ

This narrative represent my innermost and heartfelt thoughts, and portrays an authentic image of the person I am in my essence and how my mind works


Having read widely, travelled extensively I endeavour to relate to others without regard for or being impressed by status, wealth, position or possessions

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Well-behaved
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music Preferences:
Instrumental
Books:
History; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Drama; Romance; War
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I'm a student
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Animals:
I like them at the zoo
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I enjoy it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Beach house
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz:
Hopeful