I am a simple, God fearing, hard working man looking to, God willing, get married, settle down and start a family. I know that true love must be based on a good friendship/understanding but my ultimate goal and the real reason I am here is marriage not meeting new friends or acquaintances. I'm very serious and determined when it comes to starting a relationship with the lady that will, God willing, one day become my wife and the mother of my children. If I'm not clear about what I want and what I'm looking for in my future wife then we could both stand to lose a lot and end up getting hurt. If I'm going to be living with this lady for the rest of my life then sooner or later she's going to find out about my habits and how I think and function in general. All I'm trying to do is highlight what is of the utmost importance to me before we take this any further. If you properly check my profile, you'll notice that I did my very best to fill it out in as much detail as possible. In addition, when it came to the "ideal match" section, I did not hold back. I listed the most important traits that I'm not willing to compromise on. I don't ask that you do the same (even though, had I done that, nobody could really blame me). The very least you can do is READ my profile carefully. This request might come as a surprise to some of you but I've been contacted by so many ladies that so very obviously did not bother to do so! Is this really fair? What do you think this says about their intentions?! I'm not shallow or superficial so just because you think you have an attractive pic doesn't mean you're what I'm looking for! Please read my profile carefully before you get in touch (the "ideal match" bit in particular).
About His Ideal Match
Someone to spend the rest of my life with. A descent, loving, caring person. Having a picture is not a must but a definite bonus (I will be asking for one shortly after we meet anyway). Serious people only!!
Now, the not so very nice bit: what I'm NOT looking for (it's going to be a bit blunt but I don't think we should be beating around the bush here). For starters: no ladies with children please: I know children are a blessing but I'm sorry I'm not willing to raise somebody else's kids. Any lady with ex- boyfriends (or any other fornication-based relationship) is not welcome! If you think this is too backwards then you need to re-think your religion. Even in Christianity, fornication is a huge sin. Read the bible:
Corinthians 6:9. Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor HOMOSEXUALS, 10. nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
This reminds me of another big no no: social drinkers and light smoker please stay away.
Please be realistic before you contact me. I'm in my thirties so if you're a lot younger (or older for that matter) then there's no real point in trying to make things happen. I only speak Arabic and English so, once again, if you speak neither then what's the point! Oh, just to clarify this: semi Arabic-French does not count. You either speak proper, clearly understood Arabic or you don't!! . Finally (another thing to do with being realistic), just in case you missed it: I'm 57Kg and there's a very slim chance I'll be adding to that anytime soon so please,do the maths!
I'm very sorry if this sounds a bit harsh but there's no point in wasting our time over something that's doomed to fail. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and good luck.