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RJVR5269

55 – Helderberg (Somerset West), Cape Town, South Africa

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Modified: 14 January 2024

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In His Own Words

About Him

I am not searching for the perfect woman: That does not exist.
I don't care what you look like (or think you do), I want to engage with your mind and I am here to find someone exceptional, whom I can admire and adore as an important, indispensable complement of me.
I cry a lot, about all kinds of things... it makes me stronger. I am fierce and dangerous, yet I have learnt to control my wrath and channel it to Serve and Protect.
Sex will happen, yes, when due... It is an important part of a balanced relationship, and should NEVER be a game or a barter tool.
I am a modern, balanced SIGMA and you should ideally know how to deal with that, ie so no snowflake feminista's: a good debate is one thing, crazy emo woke libtard vitriol is another.
I believe in equality with recognition of personal abilities, ie we contribute what we can, and appreciate what the other contributes to supplement our personal shortcomings.
I am also inspired by a recent profile I saw to admit that I am not perfect. We all make mistakes. It is how one deals with the mistakes that makes the difference.
Native Afrikaans speaker yet bilingual enough to be judged English.
Proficient in technology generally.
Intelligent, interesting, bohemian extraordinaire.
Other interests include birding, mushroom foraging and cultivation, bonsai, the arts and food. Medicinal use of foraged & cultivated flora.
I would rather cook on a fire than a stove, even though I am accomplished on same....
I am on a journey. Are you up for the ride?

About His Ideal Match

I don't care whether you like me or not.
If I complement you by FAV'ing or MESS'ing you, be greatfull, as much as I am greatfull for any attention I receive. Dopamine is a thing, after all...
I am DIRECT & HONEST, so you will know where you stand.
I'm looking for someone who isn't defined by the world we live in but rather by the individual they are. Someone who is BRAVE and yet sometimes feels very SMALL and needs comfort and protection. Comfortable in their own space and tolerant of my quirks. Able to have fun without reserve and to laugh from deep inside. Confident, outgoing, be able to see the lighter side of life sometimes.
Some basics are required... moral values, integrity, honesty... values similar to mine... similar goals and interests. You should enjoy the outdoors but also be able to take time out and just veg together, enjoy a tv show sometimes, or just good debate. Be grounded, enjoy spontaneous activity. Be able to laugh at oneself. Not take yourself too seriously.
The short version is I want a normal woman with an interest in life that acknowledges that everything can't be perfect, and see those imperfections as the stuff that gives flavour to the mundane.
Not looking for someone to do my washing, the dishes, or the cleaning in the (our) house. I can do that and believe these things are shared responsibilities. Looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with... an equal, a partner, a lover, a friend., and my Battle Queen.
We all have "baggage"... it's impossible to age and not pick up some experiential "battle" scars.
Oh, and here is the standard disclaimer: I enjoy red wine and walking on the beach at sunset and a hot, romantic fire in winter... really I do same as everone else... My honesty has cost me dearly in the past, but it is non negotiable.
I am fierce but I don't bite... take a chance.
Looking forward to stand in Awe of your Special Powers, so that I may Admire you as my Queen, and Serve you as your King!

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Helderberg (Somerset West), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
55
Star Sign:
Aquarius
Height:
186cm (6' 1.2")
Body Type:
Large
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans
Other Languages:
English; Other
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Central America; Botswana; Namibia; South Africa; Mexico; United States
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
30 - 60
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Shaved
Eye Colour:
Black; Blue-Green; Green; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Widowed; It's Complicated
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional)
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite Colour:
Red
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Classical; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Opera; Rock
Reading:
There's nothing better
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Archery; Birdwatching; Body building; Canoeing; Chess; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Martial arts; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Weight training
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious Attendance:
Never
Dream Home:
Stilt house in the jungle
Politics:
Moderate
Retirement Plans:
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods
Feelings about using DatingBuzz:
Curious; Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely