In His Own Words
About Him
I am not searching for the perfect woman: That does not exist.
I don't care what you look like (or think you do), I want to engage with your mind and I am here to find someone exceptional, whom I can admire and adore as an important, indispensable complement of me.
I cry a lot, about all kinds of things... it makes me stronger. I am fierce and dangerous, yet I have learnt to control my wrath and channel it to Serve and Protect.
Sex will happen, yes, when due... It is an important part of a balanced relationship, and should NEVER be a game or a barter tool.
I am a modern, balanced SIGMA and you should ideally know how to deal with that, ie so no snowflake feminista's: a good debate is one thing, crazy emo woke libtard vitriol is another.
I believe in equality with recognition of personal abilities, ie we contribute what we can, and appreciate what the other contributes to supplement our personal shortcomings.
I am also inspired by a recent profile I saw to admit that I am not perfect. We all make mistakes. It is how one deals with the mistakes that makes the difference.
Native Afrikaans speaker yet bilingual enough to be judged English.
Proficient in technology generally.
Intelligent, interesting, bohemian extraordinaire.
Other interests include birding, mushroom foraging and cultivation, bonsai, the arts and food. Medicinal use of foraged & cultivated flora.
I would rather cook on a fire than a stove, even though I am accomplished on same....
I am on a journey. Are you up for the ride?
About His Ideal Match
I don't care whether you like me or not.
If I complement you by FAV'ing or MESS'ing you, be greatfull, as much as I am greatfull for any attention I receive. Dopamine is a thing, after all...
I am DIRECT & HONEST, so you will know where you stand.
I'm looking for someone who isn't defined by the world we live in but rather by the individual they are. Someone who is BRAVE and yet sometimes feels very SMALL and needs comfort and protection. Comfortable in their own space and tolerant of my quirks. Able to have fun without reserve and to laugh from deep inside. Confident, outgoing, be able to see the lighter side of life sometimes.
Some basics are required... moral values, integrity, honesty... values similar to mine... similar goals and interests. You should enjoy the outdoors but also be able to take time out and just veg together, enjoy a tv show sometimes, or just good debate. Be grounded, enjoy spontaneous activity. Be able to laugh at oneself. Not take yourself too seriously.
The short version is I want a normal woman with an interest in life that acknowledges that everything can't be perfect, and see those imperfections as the stuff that gives flavour to the mundane.
Not looking for someone to do my washing, the dishes, or the cleaning in the (our) house. I can do that and believe these things are shared responsibilities. Looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with... an equal, a partner, a lover, a friend., and my Battle Queen.
We all have "baggage"... it's impossible to age and not pick up some experiential "battle" scars.
Oh, and here is the standard disclaimer: I enjoy red wine and walking on the beach at sunset and a hot, romantic fire in winter... really I do same as everone else... My honesty has cost me dearly in the past, but it is non negotiable.
I am fierce but I don't bite... take a chance.
Looking forward to stand in Awe of your Special Powers, so that I may Admire you as my Queen, and Serve you as your King!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Somerset West), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Central America; Botswana; Namibia; South Africa; Mexico; United States | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue-Green; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Birdwatching; Body building; Canoeing; Chess; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Martial arts; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |