In sy eie woorde...
Oor Hom
I hate this section , maybe because I'm a Scorpio, or maybe theres just too much about me that can be told I
always say its better to see than to hear its better to feel than to touch and no book should be judge by its cover or by its length. Only those close to me have seen a glimpse of who is me. and to get close is a very trialling test but worth the journey should you choose it, the reset well lets leave it a mystery shall we ..... ;-)
The best thing is not to hate anyone, only to love. That is the only way out of it. As soon as you have forgiven those whom you hate, you have gotten rid of them. Then you have no reason to hate them; you just forget.
No two relationships are the same each is dynamic and unique . The way you interact, how you interact, and your feelings for one another all depend on you and the other person.
Relationships take time. I do expect us to get on like a house on fire (though that does occasionally happen).
I enter any relationship (love, family, friend) with an open mind. Remember these people that you interact with are different from you, so they will have different habits, abilities, traits, etc. We would not have to forgive people if we didn't judge them in the first place.
Communication is vital to a successful relationship. Suppressed emotions can fester and you may eventually find yourself shouting at people (not good for building up relationships).
It takes about five positive experiences to erase one negative one. ( To err is human, to forgive divine.)
Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
First kiss
To feel love in a single touch
and a life time in an hour
see a infinite universe
in a finite space
just remember our first kiss
and see the time unfold
like a flower
Copyright ©2005 Me
p.s Smile its a wonderful day ?
Hasta luego
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
Here are some adjectives describing what I look for in others: energetic, aware, enigmatic, intelligent, passionate, witty, observant, inquisitive, engaging, focused, loyal, creative, empathetic, honest, active, socially-conscious, open-minded, cerebral, intense, surprising, compassionate, introspective, complicated, multifaceted, adventurous, spontaneous, unconventional, adaptive, and independent. Still...it's funny: despite an extensive idea of what I seek (please see the glaringly obnoxious example above), sometimes a person will have a certain intangible appeal one cannot describe using words. While I believe similarities are important, there should be enough differences to keep things interesting. I seek someone I can learn from, who also learns from me--someone I love learning; someone who fascinates me; someone who takes care of me and lets me take care of them, but this someone should also be capable of taking care of themselves; someone I am physically attracted to and have amazing chemistry with, who is also my very best friend; someone who makes an effort to understand me--that is, I want someone who loves my random idiosyncrasies and eccentricities (oh, and there are many); someone who recognizes beauty in simple things, yet strives for incredible experiences. (How was that for a Virginia Woolf type sentence rife with semicolons?) In short, I want someone who is full of life... There are about 650,000 hours of life, actually--yep, that is just one example of the useless knowledge that I have--and I plan to make the most of each and every fleeting moment.
Wat Sy Vriende Sê
DrFoxSA het nog nie enige aanbevelings van vriende af nie.
Oor Hom
Land van Oorsprong: |
Suid-Afrika | |
Ligging: |
Midrand (9th on lever), Gauteng, Suid-Afrika | |
Geslag: |
Manlik | |
Ouderdom: |
44 | |
Sterreteken: |
Skerpioen | |
Lengte: |
Vra my later | |
Liggaamstipe: |
Gemiddeld | |
Uiterlike: |
Baie Aantreklik | |
Haarkleur: |
Donkerbruin | |
Oogkleur: |
Bruin | |
Ras: |
Vra my later | |
Huistaal: |
Engels | |
Ander Tale: |
Vra my later | |
Geloof: |
Vra my later | |
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enkellopend | |
Opsoek na: |
Net aanlynvriende; Aktiwiteitsmaats; Vriende; Oop vir moontlikhede; Korttermyn; Langtermyn; Huwelik | |
Het Kinders: |
Nee | |
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Vra my later | |
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Vra my later | |
Rookgewoontes: |
Gereeld | |
Drinkgewoontes: |
Vra my later | |
Geleerdheid: |
Vra my later | |
Beroep: |
Vra my later | |
Inkomste: |
Vra my later |
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
Land van Oorsprong: |
Enige plek in die Wêreld | ||
Ligging: |
Enige plek in Gauteng, Suid-Afrika | ||
Geslag: |
Vroulik | ||
Ouderdomskaal: |
Enige | ||
Sterreteken: |
Enige | ||
Lengte: |
Enige | ||
Liggaamstipe: |
Slank; Gemiddeld; Atleties; Ander | ||
Uiterlike: |
Skoonheidswenner; Baie Aantreklik; Aantreklik | ||
Haarkleur: |
Enige | ||
Oogkleur: |
Enige | ||
Het 'n Foto: |
Glad nie belangrik nie | ||
Ras: |
Enige | ||
Huistaal: |
Enige | ||
Ander Tale: |
Enige | ||
Geloof: |
Enige | ||
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enige | ||
Het Kinders: |
Enige | ||
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Enige | ||
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Enige | ||
Rookgewoontes: |
Enige | ||
Drinkgewoontes: |
Enige | ||
Geleerdheid: |
Enige | ||
Beroep: |
Enige | ||
Inkomste: |
Enige |
- Glad nie belangrik nie
- Effens belangrik
- Redelik belangrik
- Oorwegend belangrik
- Nieonderhandelbaar
Meer Oor Hom
Haarstyl: |
Kort |
Sig: |
Ek het perfekte sig |
Intelligensie: |
Intelligent |
Partytjie Gedrag: |
'n Sosiale vlinder |
Persoonlikheidstrekke: |
Ekstrovert; Gemaklik; Intelligent; Optimisties; Realisties; Skaam; Snaaks; Stabiel; Stil; Uitdagend; Versigtig; Wild & Uitbundig |
Gewaardeerde Kwaliteite: |
Barmhartigheid; Chemie; Eerlikheid; Geduld; Getrouheid; Goedhartigheid; Hoop; Humor; Liefdadigheid; Matigheid; Meegevoeligheid; Nederigheid; Selfbeheersing; Selibaat; Sensualiteit; Tevredenheid; Verdraagsaamheid; Vergewend; Vriendelikheid |
Modebewustheid: |
Informeel (Ek dra gewoonlik my gunsteling denim) |
Gunsteling Kleredrag: |
My betroubare denimbroek |
Gunsteling Kleur: |
Rooi |
Afspraak Aktiwiteite: |
'n Fliek; 'n Musiekkonsert; 'n Piekniek in die park; Aandete by 'n restaurant; Uitgaan vir dans; Teater toe gaan; Ontmoet vir koffie; Ontmoet vir drankies; Stap op die strand |
Musiek Voorkeure: |
Alternatief; Broadway / Teater; Dans / Disko; Elektroniese Dansmusiek; Instrumentaal; Klassiek; Latyns; Nuwe Era; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Swaar Metaal; World |
Lees: |
Ek is 'n boekwurm |
Boeke: |
Fantasie; Topverkopers; Wetenskap / Tegnologie; Wetenskapsfiksie |
TV Programme: |
Aksie / Avontuur; Buitelug / Natuurlewe; Dokumentêr; Fliekkanale; Komedie / Sitkom; Musiekkanale; Realiteitsprogramme; Tekenprente; Wetenskapsfiksie |
Fliek Gereeldheid: |
Af-en-toe of ongereeld |
Fliek Voorkeure: |
Aksie; Komedie; Kultusklassiek; Misterie; Riller; Romanties; Volwasse; Wetenskapsfiksie |
Belangstellings: |
Besigheidsnuus; Boeke skryf; Fotografie; Gedigte skryf; Gesonde leefstyl; Inkopies; Internetbesoeke; Joga; Kookkuns; Lees; Meditering; Motorherstelwerk; Musiek Maak; Rekenaar- en televisiespeletjies; Rekenaarprogrammering; Skilder |
Sport Betrokkenheid: |
Tot die dood toe verveeld |
Sport: |
Atletiek; Biljart Snoeker; Boogskiet; Branderplankry; Dans; Gewigsoefeninge; Krygskunde; Liggaamsbou; Perdry; Rotsklim; Ski; Skietsport; Skubaduik; Sneeuplankry; Snoeker; Stap; Swem; Waaghalsige sport; Waterski; Witwater-kanovaart; Ysskaats |
Kook: |
Ek is mal daaroor! |
Kookkuns: |
Duits; Frans; Grieks; Indies; Italiaans; Kitskos; Sjinees; Suid-Afrikaans |
Uiteet: |
Ek eet net op spesiale geleenthede uit |
Lewenspas: |
Gaan saam met die vloei |
Tydverdryf keuses: |
Sosiaal met vriende verkeer |
Tyd Aanlyn: |
Een of twee keer per week |
Familie Grootte: |
Ek het 'n broer |
Familie Nouheid: |
Ons is baie geheg |
Verhoudingstipes: |
Ek is net enkellopend |
Diere: |
Ek's lief vir my troeteldier(e) |
Troeteldiere (Het): |
Kat(te) |
Prikkels: |
Selfgeldend; Liggaamsdeurboring(s); Dans; Erotika; Flankering; Intelligensie; Langhare; Liefde toon in die publiek; Naakbaai; Tatoeëermerke; Sensasiesoeker; Rykdom |
Godsdienstige Bywoning: |
Ek is niepraktiserend |
Droomhuis: |
'n Kasteel in Skotland |
Politiek: |
Ek het geen belangstelling in politiek nie |
Aftreeplanne: |
Uiteindelik daardie roman skryf |
Eerlikheid: |
Uiters |