In His Own Words
About Him
I hate this section , maybe because I'm a Scorpio, or maybe theres just too much about me that can be told I
always say its better to see than to hear its better to feel than to touch and no book should be judge by its cover or by its length. Only those close to me have seen a glimpse of who is me. and to get close is a very trialling test but worth the journey should you choose it, the reset well lets leave it a mystery shall we ..... ;-)
The best thing is not to hate anyone, only to love. That is the only way out of it. As soon as you have forgiven those whom you hate, you have gotten rid of them. Then you have no reason to hate them; you just forget.
No two relationships are the same each is dynamic and unique . The way you interact, how you interact, and your feelings for one another all depend on you and the other person.
Relationships take time. I do expect us to get on like a house on fire (though that does occasionally happen).
I enter any relationship (love, family, friend) with an open mind. Remember these people that you interact with are different from you, so they will have different habits, abilities, traits, etc. We would not have to forgive people if we didn't judge them in the first place.
Communication is vital to a successful relationship. Suppressed emotions can fester and you may eventually find yourself shouting at people (not good for building up relationships).
It takes about five positive experiences to erase one negative one. ( To err is human, to forgive divine.)
Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
First kiss
To feel love in a single touch
and a life time in an hour
see a infinite universe
in a finite space
just remember our first kiss
and see the time unfold
like a flower
Copyright ©2005 Me
p.s Smile its a wonderful day ?
Hasta luego
About His Ideal Match
Here are some adjectives describing what I look for in others: energetic, aware, enigmatic, intelligent, passionate, witty, observant, inquisitive, engaging, focused, loyal, creative, empathetic, honest, active, socially-conscious, open-minded, cerebral, intense, surprising, compassionate, introspective, complicated, multifaceted, adventurous, spontaneous, unconventional, adaptive, and independent. Still...it's funny: despite an extensive idea of what I seek (please see the glaringly obnoxious example above), sometimes a person will have a certain intangible appeal one cannot describe using words. While I believe similarities are important, there should be enough differences to keep things interesting. I seek someone I can learn from, who also learns from me--someone I love learning; someone who fascinates me; someone who takes care of me and lets me take care of them, but this someone should also be capable of taking care of themselves; someone I am physically attracted to and have amazing chemistry with, who is also my very best friend; someone who makes an effort to understand me--that is, I want someone who loves my random idiosyncrasies and eccentricities (oh, and there are many); someone who recognizes beauty in simple things, yet strives for incredible experiences. (How was that for a Virginia Woolf type sentence rife with semicolons?) In short, I want someone who is full of life... There are about 650,000 hours of life, actually--yep, that is just one example of the useless knowledge that I have--and I plan to make the most of each and every fleeting moment.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Midrand (9th on lever), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
Any | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Other | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Body building; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Pool; Rock climbing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Snooker; Snowboarding; Surfing; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
