Fardarter

33 – City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
33
Star Sign:
Ask me later
Height:
181cm (5' 11.3")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Ask me later
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Atheist
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Student
Income:
Solvent

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
20 - 35
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Curvaceous
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

This is just to say

I have eaten
the plums
that were in
the icebox

and which
you were probably
saving
for breakfast

Forgive me
they were delicious
so sweet
and so cold

This poem by William Carlos Williams puts me in mind of the poetry of ordinary life. Was he forgiven for his theft? Did the note and its tone offset the wariness in the partner to whom the plums belonged. Or does the poem speak of a kindness, a element of faith between Williams and his partner that they would willingly step aside for his satisfaction?

What does it mean to share yourself with someone? To be truly accepted? What does real intimacy feel like?

Me, I don't know, but I suppose its one of those surprises life still has in store for me. I am interested the journey though, and how it will pan out. Sometimes I feel like if I got to 90, I'd still be wondering what I had yet to learn about relationships, and most of the time, thats how I think it should be.

So why should you get to know me? Good conversation, hikes we can go on, a mutual interest in current affairs, books we can share.

Also, and maybe more importantly, I give a damn about those first three questions. If you do too, then lets see if what we can learn.

About His Ideal Match

Energetic, playful, self-confident, articulate, intelligent, caring, and honest.

A lady that doesn't mind 3 am road trips, spur of the moment adventures. A woman that thinks the universe is an awesome, mysterious and mind boggling place and can stare at the stars with wonder and appreciation, and finds the passing of the seasons no less beautiful for being explicable.

If you are this person, and the chemistry works, then there are no limits

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair Style:
Out of control
Personality Traits
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Kindness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Orange
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Punk; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Photography; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry
Sports:
Hiking; Soccer
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I'm a student
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Family Size:
I've got brothers
Family Closeness:
My friends are my main family
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Religious Attendance:
Never
Retirement Plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Very