In His Own Words
About Him
Can you picture a happy-go-lucky Phantom of the Opera? Evenings in my lair watching Californication, soft-boiling the perfect free-range egg, sawing off wedges of self-toasting rye bread (just leave in fridge for 2 weeks), naming drinks I've invented but haven't tried yet (muddy mary or brown russian, anyone?)*
Other favourites: cinnamon, citrus, novels with footnotes, making people laugh, tickle-wrestling, tweaking rules to achieve desired degree of unfairness, music in funny time signatures, plain yoghurt
I don't take things for granted and I don't need much to be content -- sensible food, a little exercise, something to stimulate the imagination, but most importantly someone to effortlessly chat with while doing nothing-very-exciting (you know - make a salad, go for a swim, maybe teach each other a little yoga, music theory or... what are you into?)
About the rest - it's all in the eye of the beholder.
* have tried a few times now. not nearly as delicious as one would think.
About His Ideal Match
nerdhood is not actually a requirement, but if you're too attached to your 'cool' image you may wish to pick someone more suave with whom to be seen in public.
my hypothetical ideal match would be as honest as possible while always remaining gentle; open-minded; introspective; not too attached to the fairytale romance thing. someone who /likes/ herself (though a moderate dose of misanthropy is fine =) Someone with the patience to follow and be amused by my conversational tangents.
going on past experience, the following are promising portents: a lover of language, music, cats, dogs & new ideas; a conflicted idealist; someone who finds me irresistibly witty & sexy & trustworthy.
i'm a sucker for a soft voice, a sharp mind, the odd guffaw.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Plumstead), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Dutch | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
24 - 39 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 209cm (6' 10.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Other | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Other | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Disabilities: |
I have a visual impairment |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Pessimistic; Quiet; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Brown |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Independent; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; Yoga |
Sports: |
Chess; Cycling; Hiking; Pool; Rock climbing; Running; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |
