In His Own Words
About Him
If you are going to leap, it might as well be a quantum leap.
So here goes... one more time.
I am an enigma, sometimes even to myself - intense yet laid back; a modern mystic, unfettered by convention and tradition, lost to religious and worldly superstition, deeply spiritual yet in business in a big way; hedonist and surrendered to WHAT IS, . So I am looking for that deepest relationship with that special elusive Soul. An adventure in Spirit.
I will love you because of who you are and who You Are and, more importantly, because of who I AM when I am with you.
I do not expect you to compromise yourself for a relationship, and hope that you hold the same view as I will not sail my integrity down the river. I am not a Christian anything NB
"A true love is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart." That is the connection I seek at all levels.
I totally identify with "You are Source energy in a physical body, and the better you feel, the more of this loving, kind, beautiful, receptive, abundant, expanding, and creative energy is flowing through you. I respect this Source Energy, and I share it with you as well."
In the casual preparation of a meal while chatting with you; in a laughing sunlit walk, in breathing the taste of wet rain, the gentle kiss on your cheek, in the touch of the breeze on the skin, or in the thousand forgotten times of momentary relaxation - need is forgotten and Love reaches in - for I have learned a Sacred Secret, I wish to share with that special someone.
And we shall decide - we should look to spend time together more and more - because we feed each other's Souls.
High IQ, EQ, AQ and SQ
ok ok I love to cook, fine dining, watching Master Chef
I love my eclectic music - jazz, opera, indian, lounge
Appreciate art, nature, esp the Bush, the open road
Pics not older than 3 years
Keywords: Advaita, Mooji, Eckhardt Tolle. AbrahamHicks
About His Ideal Match
Could you be challenged to give up your favorite superstitions and cherished beliefs? To step boldly where few have dared.
While we should start out as friends - would you be open to something more intimate and long lasting?
I hope you are ok with your stuff, your "baggage", that you know where its at, and are now willing to consider having a life-partner. Are you emotionally available, not just casually looking or not still having issues that need be sorted out. (PLEASE - no ongoing emotional issues with the ex, still being in love with your past life or lover, not ready to make the emotional plunge in to a relationship)
Yes, mature enough to know that a great relationship or even a great friendship takes time, requires an emotional investment and then you are ready, willing and able to put in the effort.
I am done with the drama queens,the high maintenance material girls, the needy, the spiritually void, religious fanatics and the emotionally challenged
Please dont tell me you dont need anyone in your life (why are you on a dating site?); or that you are unwilling to share your space. I chuckle at the requests for honest and trustworthy men... if you dont know your True Self, can the ego mind be trusted?
Our time is precious. We really dont have time for these and other games. And yes, I may appear as intense only because I want to get past all the dross in a hurry... and then relax into a relationship that is worthy of the name.
"To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world."
Oh and on a practical level - you are a Lady and expect to be treated like one by a gentleman - of course. Princesses are for fairy tales. Goddesses? Well that is for a later discussion.
You love good food, fine dining and are a great cook / baker.
No extreme sports. Indian classical music???
Travel - overseas, the bush, the seaside.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
47 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") - 179cm (5' 10.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; French | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Jazz; Latin; New Age |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Birdwatching; Cricket; Motorsport; Rugby; Scuba diving |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Pets (Like): |
Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
