In His Own Words
About Him
Let's be upfront, Lust (the strong raw desire) is the first trigger when we see someone in a social setting.
It's a draw of some kind. It's hard to stave off and comes and goes easily. Friendship has to be given a chance along with Lust. Love (the unconditional touching of the soul at the core of everything we value - everything we're vulnerable to), Lust, and Friend are needed for a real relationship to survive. If any one of them are missing, a person will seek it elsewhere and the relationship will fail.
Love needs trust and trust comes through developing a friendship. Friendship is someone who knows your secrets, laughs and plays with you without taking it personal, comes to your aide when needed, accepts and embraces "all" of you - your lifestyle, friends, family...they're your comrade in arms. Friendship isn't tied to the emotional trials of Love and Lust and can separate them.
With online dating, I find many rush into the relationship destroying what might have been a good thing. I have learned the hard way and I'm not looking to rush into anything in my life. Though I am looking for that woman who will touch my soul, I plan to go very slow as I'm very cautious and selective. I am looking for a partner willing to work the delicate balance of lust while growing a friendship. Someone outgoing and happy doing almost anything life has to offer yet well grounded, humbled, and a caregiver like me...not a co-dependent. Someone who can share laughter yet humble enough to share their disappointments. Someone who can share past memories and create new ones to cherish. Someone who wants to work as a team at whatever life throws at us knowing we each have the others back...someone looking for the fun, security, and stability of a strong relationship I can offer.
About His Ideal Match
Loving,caring,honest,beautiful in the inside,loyal,straight forward,good smile.romantic,playful,kind,open minded,outgoing,funny and sweet.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hermanus, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
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Body Type: |
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Looks: |
Any | ||
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Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
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Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
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- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Variety shows |