In Her Own Words
About Her
Please pay careful attention to the following: I’ll not appreciate having my time wasted even though you’ve been informed and know exactly what I’m about.I have a daughter who is my entire world.Accept her and ease into our lives without imposing your expectations on us. Mess with this and you’re out.
I am not comfortable with guys who have kids of their own,here’s why:I’m weary you’re looking for a glorified nanny to raise them for you while you’re off golfing. Also, why aren’t they living with you? What did you do wrong? A new relationship doesn’t have room for those kinds of questions & distrust. If you’re offended-stop reading-goodbye!
I’m fiercely independent but live with my father. We look out for each other and were tight as a family. I can do a lot, was raised by a military man. You will need to know more than I do to hold my attention. I don’t like know-it-all’s, be smart enough but not so smart that you belittle me or the people around you. I appreciate a wise-owl-old-soul with a young spirit. Sense of humor is a MUST. But please, keep it classy.
No, you cannot be seeing someone else while you test the waters with me. Drug-abuse/casual-use is an absolute NO.I care about the environment, I love all of nature-even spiders. I have a pet tarantula so you need to be nice to her in order to appease me. I will be paying attention to how you treat others, big or small.
Lastly, I’m an artist at heart so don’t try figure me out and place me in a ‘box’ to understand me. Best advice I can give-get to know me (this may take a while so ‘sorry for you’ if you think sex is in the cards the first few months)...and if you can add fuel to my passions in life but know how to fan the flames when things are detrimental to me...you may just be the person I’d like to be around for a prolonged period of time. Please also note-we don’t HAVE to be relationship material to keep in touch. I’m a big girl-I’m open to friendships too. As you can see I have a lot to say, so be prepared.
About Her Ideal Match
Straight-forward, wise and likes to observe. Needs to be funny and enjoy humor. No need to be too serious. Life’s too short for nonsense but also be mature enough to know when one needs to stand up to the plate and act ones age. Show respect towards others. Misogyny NOT WELCOME! You need to be willing to listen as much as you talk. You need to be smart enough to keep me entertained and educate me on things you find interesting.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Healthy living; Painting; Shopping; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Hiking; Martial arts; Running; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Turn-offs: |
Skinny dipping |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Honesty: |
Very |