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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: 2 weeks ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Helderberg (Strand), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
48
Star Sign:
Aquarius
Height:
186cm (6' 1.2")
Body Type:
Large
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans
Other Languages:
English; Other
Religion:
Ask me later
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro; Winelands; Overberg (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
38 - 48
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

What to write...mmm... I mostly enjoy life. I do have a naughty streak and you will often see me with a big smile on my face; don't assume you know why! That said, I'm kind and loving and on the whole believe in the greater good of mankind. I strive to live life simply and honestly, which makes things a whole lot easier.
I love to laugh, explore, meet new people, talk about the world, think, find new opportunities and have a good time. The road less traveled is often more interesting!
I have loads of time for people who are smart, caring, honest, loyal and open to new ideas, as these are qualities I strive for myself and value in those around me. I love art movies and classical opera and see far too little of it...

Independence is important to me and while I definitely have the capacity to commit (if the combination is right) we should never sacrifice our own identities just because we're involved (no matter what type of involvement that may be)... only the best versions of ourselves will add to and enrich the life of another....

I have recently taken up painting ... first in acrylics and now oils, and I am enjoying it immensely! I would like to learn more... how good are your canvasses?

About His Ideal Match

I'm looking for someone who isn't defined by the world we live in but rather by the individual they are. Someone who still believes one person can make a difference, yet sometimes feels very small and needs to be comforted. Someone who is comfortable in their own space and will accept me for who I am. Being able to have fun without reserve and to laugh from deep inside. Confident, outgoing, be able to see the lighter side of life. I think there are some basics that are necessary... moral values, integrity, honesty... similar values to mine. Similar goals and interests. Should enjoy the outdoors but also able to take time out and just veg together, enjoy a few tv shows too. Be grounded, enjoy spontaneous activity. Be able to laugh at oneself. Not take yourself too seriously.
Phew! That was a load and a half! The short version is I want a normal woman with an interest in life that acknowledges that everything can't be perfect, and see those imperfections as the stuff that gives flavour to the mundane.
Not looking for someone to do my washing, the dishes, or the cleaning in the (our) house. I can do that and believe these things are shared responsibilities. Looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with... an equal, a partner, a lover, a friend.
We all have "baggage"... it's impossible to become older and not pick up some experiential "battle" scars. It's how we deal with it that defines us. So, unfortunately, if you have not dealt with and processed your baggage, don't expect me to be your crutch. That's unfair, and I have wasted too much time trying to sort out other peoples sh*t... It never works that way.
O, and by the way, we all enjoy red wine and walking on the beach at sunset and the hot, romantic fire in winter... and "live life to the fullest"... and I don't think any of us are REALLY 100% honest... come on!!!
So... what else do you enjoy... what really differentiates YOU?
PS: If you know about f-stops and twitching and have a Life List, maybe we can work on it together...

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Red
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Classical; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Opera; Rock
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books
Sports:
Archery; Birdwatching; Body building; Canoeing; Chess; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Martial arts; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
There's nothing better
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Retirement Plans:
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using DatingBuzz:
Curious; Jaded