About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Strand), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; Other | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Marital Status: |
Never Married | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro; Winelands; Overberg (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Marital Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
What to write...mmm... I mostly enjoy life. I do have a naughty streak and you will often see me with a big smile on my face; don't assume you know why! That said, I'm kind and loving and on the whole believe in the greater good of mankind. I strive to live life simply and honestly, which makes things a whole lot easier.
I love to laugh, explore, meet new people, talk about the world, think, find new opportunities and have a good time. The road less traveled is often more interesting!
I have loads of time for people who are smart, caring, honest, loyal and open to new ideas, as these are qualities I strive for myself and value in those around me. I love art movies and classical opera and see far too little of it...
Independence is important to me and while I definitely have the capacity to commit (if the combination is right) we should never sacrifice our own identities just because we're involved (no matter what type of involvement that may be)... only the best versions of ourselves will add to and enrich the life of another....
I have recently taken up painting ... first in acrylics and now oils, and I am enjoying it immensely! I would like to learn more... how good are your canvasses?
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking for someone who isn't defined by the world we live in but rather by the individual they are. Someone who still believes one person can make a difference, yet sometimes feels very small and needs to be comforted. Someone who is comfortable in their own space and will accept me for who I am. Being able to have fun without reserve and to laugh from deep inside. Confident, outgoing, be able to see the lighter side of life. I think there are some basics that are necessary... moral values, integrity, honesty... similar values to mine. Similar goals and interests. Should enjoy the outdoors but also able to take time out and just veg together, enjoy a few tv shows too. Be grounded, enjoy spontaneous activity. Be able to laugh at oneself. Not take yourself too seriously.
Phew! That was a load and a half! The short version is I want a normal woman with an interest in life that acknowledges that everything can't be perfect, and see those imperfections as the stuff that gives flavour to the mundane.
Not looking for someone to do my washing, the dishes, or the cleaning in the (our) house. I can do that and believe these things are shared responsibilities. Looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with... an equal, a partner, a lover, a friend.
We all have "baggage"... it's impossible to become older and not pick up some experiential "battle" scars. It's how we deal with it that defines us. So, unfortunately, if you have not dealt with and processed your baggage, don't expect me to be your crutch. That's unfair, and I have wasted too much time trying to sort out other peoples sh*t... It never works that way.
O, and by the way, we all enjoy red wine and walking on the beach at sunset and the hot, romantic fire in winter... and "live life to the fullest"... and I don't think any of us are REALLY 100% honest... come on!!!
So... what else do you enjoy... what really differentiates YOU?
PS: If you know about f-stops and twitching and have a Life List, maybe we can work on it together...
More About Him
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Hair Style: |
Short |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Cuisine: |
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Opera; Rock |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Shows: |
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sports: |
Archery; Birdwatching; Body building; Canoeing; Chess; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Martial arts; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Weight training |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Dining Out: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on video |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Current Relationship: |
I'm single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Honesty: |
Very |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Curious; Jaded |
