In sy eie woorde...
Oor Hom
I am not searching for the perfect woman: That does not exist.
I don't care what you look like (or think you do), I want to engage with your mind and I am here to find someone exceptional, whom I can admire and adore as an important, indispensable complement of me.
I cry a lot, about all kinds of things... it makes me stronger. I am fierce and dangerous, yet I have learnt to control my wrath and channel it to Serve and Protect.
Sex will happen, yes, when due... It is an important part of a balanced relationship, and should NEVER be a game or a barter tool.
I am a modern, balanced SIGMA and you should ideally know how to deal with that, ie so no snowflake feminista's: a good debate is one thing, crazy emo woke libtard vitriol is another.
I believe in equality with recognition of personal abilities, ie we contribute what we can, and appreciate what the other contributes to supplement our personal shortcomings.
I am also inspired by a recent profile I saw to admit that I am not perfect. We all make mistakes. It is how one deals with the mistakes that makes the difference.
Native Afrikaans speaker yet bilingual enough to be judged English.
Proficient in technology generally.
Intelligent, interesting, bohemian extraordinaire.
Other interests include birding, mushroom foraging and cultivation, bonsai, the arts and food. Medicinal use of foraged & cultivated flora.
I would rather cook on a fire than a stove, even though I am accomplished on same....
I am on a journey. Are you up for the ride?
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
I don't care whether you like me or not.
If I complement you by FAV'ing or MESS'ing you, be greatfull, as much as I am greatfull for any attention I receive. Dopamine is a thing, after all...
I am DIRECT & HONEST, so you will know where you stand.
I'm looking for someone who isn't defined by the world we live in but rather by the individual they are. Someone who is BRAVE and yet sometimes feels very SMALL and needs comfort and protection. Comfortable in their own space and tolerant of my quirks. Able to have fun without reserve and to laugh from deep inside. Confident, outgoing, be able to see the lighter side of life sometimes.
Some basics are required... moral values, integrity, honesty... values similar to mine... similar goals and interests. You should enjoy the outdoors but also be able to take time out and just veg together, enjoy a tv show sometimes, or just good debate. Be grounded, enjoy spontaneous activity. Be able to laugh at oneself. Not take yourself too seriously.
The short version is I want a normal woman with an interest in life that acknowledges that everything can't be perfect, and see those imperfections as the stuff that gives flavour to the mundane.
Not looking for someone to do my washing, the dishes, or the cleaning in the (our) house. I can do that and believe these things are shared responsibilities. Looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with... an equal, a partner, a lover, a friend., and my Battle Queen.
We all have "baggage"... it's impossible to age and not pick up some experiential "battle" scars.
Oh, and here is the standard disclaimer: I enjoy red wine and walking on the beach at sunset and a hot, romantic fire in winter... really I do same as everone else... My honesty has cost me dearly in the past, but it is non negotiable.
I am fierce but I don't bite... take a chance.
Looking forward to stand in Awe of your Special Powers, so that I may Admire you as my Queen, and Serve you as your King!
Wat Sy Vriende Sê
R_5269 het nog nie enige aanbevelings van vriende af nie.
Oor Hom
Land van Oorsprong: |
Suid-Afrika | |
Ligging: |
Helderberg (Somerset West), Kaapstad & Skiereiland, Suid-Afrika | |
Geslag: |
Manlik | |
Ouderdom: |
55 | |
Sterreteken: |
Waterdraer | |
Lengte: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Liggaamstipe: |
Groot | |
Uiterlike: |
Gemiddeld | |
Haarkleur: |
Donkerblond | |
Oogkleur: |
Blou-Groen | |
Ras: |
Blank / Kaukasiese | |
Huistaal: |
Afrikaans | |
Ander Tale: |
Engels; Ander | |
Geloof: |
Geestelik maar nie godsdienstig nie | |
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enkellopend | |
Opsoek na: |
Net aanlynvriende; Aktiwiteitsmaats; Vriende; Oop vir moontlikhede; Korttermyn; Langtermyn; Huwelik | |
Het Kinders: |
Nee | |
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Nee | |
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Eet meeste kosse | |
Rookgewoontes: |
Nieroker | |
Drinkgewoontes: |
Sosiale drinker | |
Geleerdheid: |
Baccalaureusgraad | |
Beroep: |
Tegnies / Wetenskaplik / Ingenieurswese | |
Inkomste: |
Gemaklik |
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
Land van Oorsprong: |
Enige plek in die Wêreld | ||
Ligging: |
Sentraal-Amerika; Botswana; Namibië; Suid-Afrika; Meksiko; Verenigde State van Amerika | ||
Geslag: |
Vroulik | ||
Ouderdomskaal: |
30 - 60 | ||
Sterreteken: |
Enige | ||
Lengte: |
Enige | ||
Liggaamstipe: |
Enige | ||
Uiterlike: |
Enige | ||
Haarkleur: |
Blond; Donkerblond; Ligbruin; Donkerbruin; Rooibruin; Rooi; Swart; Verander Gereeld; Geskeer | ||
Oogkleur: |
Amandelbruin; Blou-Groen; Groen; Swart | ||
Het 'n Foto: |
Oorwegend belangrik | ||
Ras: |
Asiër; Indies; Latyns / Hispanis; Midde-Ooste; Blank / Kaukasiese; Gemeng | ||
Huistaal: |
Enige | ||
Ander Tale: |
Enige | ||
Geloof: |
Enige | ||
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enkellopend; Nieamptelik geskei; Wewenaar / Weduwee; Dis Ingewikkeld | ||
Het Kinders: |
Enige | ||
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Nee; Miskien | ||
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Eet meeste kosse; Eet gesond | ||
Rookgewoontes: |
Nieroker | ||
Drinkgewoontes: |
Sosiale drinker; Gereelde drinker | ||
Geleerdheid: |
Tans 'n Universiteit / Kollege Student; 'n Bietjie Universiteit / Kollege; Tegniese Diploma; Associatesgraad; Baccalaureusgraad; Na-graadse kwalifikasie; PhD / Nadoktorale | ||
Beroep: |
Kunstig / Musiek / Skrywer; Uitvoerende Bestuur / Bestuur; Finansies; Regte; Medies / Tandheelkunde; Afgetree; Eie Onderneming; Student; Onderwyser / Professor; Tegnies / Wetenskaplik / Ingenieurswese; Landbou | ||
Inkomste: |
Genoeg; Gemaklik; Ryk; Skatryk |
- Glad nie belangrik nie
- Effens belangrik
- Redelik belangrik
- Oorwegend belangrik
- Nieonderhandelbaar
Meer Oor Hom
Haarstyl: |
Kort |
Sig: |
Ek dra soms bril |
Gesigshare: |
Ek het 'n volbaard |
Liggaamshare: |
Gemiddeld |
Gestremdhede: |
Ek het geen |
Liggaamskuns: |
Ek het geen |
Sin vir Humor: |
Gesofistikeerd |
Intelligensie: |
Einstein |
Regeer deur: |
Die verstand |
Partytjie Gedrag: |
Die lewe van die partytjie |
Persoonlikheidstrekke: |
Ekstrovert; Gemaklik; Intelligent; Optimisties; Snaaks; Stabiel; Uitdagend; Uitgesproke; Uitspattig |
Gewaardeerde Kwaliteite: |
Chemie; Eerlikheid; Getrouheid; Goedhartigheid; Humor; Meegevoeligheid; Nederigheid; Selfbeheersing; Sensualiteit; Tevredenheid; Toewyding; Verdraagsaamheid; Vergewend; Vriendelikheid |
Modebewustheid: |
Minimaal (Klere is streng opsioneel) |
Gunsteling Kleredrag: |
'n Kortbroek & T-hemp |
Gunsteling Kleur: |
Rooi |
Afspraak Aktiwiteite: |
'n Piekniek in die park; Aandete by 'n restaurant; Teater toe gaan; Ontmoet vir koffie; Ontmoet vir drankies; Stap op die strand |
Musiek Voorkeure: |
Country & Western; Klassiek; Opera; Rock; Swaar Metaal |
Lees: |
Ek is 'n boekwurm |
Boeke: |
Fantasie; Fiksie; Geskiedkundig; Misdaad; Nie-fiksie; Reis; Speurverhale; Wetenskap / Tegnologie; Wetenskapsfiksie |
TV Gewoontes: |
Ek het nie 'n televisie nie |
TV Programme: |
Aksie / Avontuur; Buitelug / Natuurlewe; Dokumentêr; Dramas; Nuus; Wetenskapsfiksie |
Fliek Gereeldheid: |
Een of twee keer per maand |
Fliek Voorkeure: |
Kultusklassiek; Kunsflieks; Misterie; Oorlog; Riller; Volwasse; Westerse; Wetenskapsfiksie |
Belangstellings: |
Beeldhoukuns; Beleggings; Besigheidsnuus; Boeke skryf; Fotografie; Gesonde leefstyl; Internetbesoeke; Kookkuns; Lees; Meditering; Pottebakkery; Rekenaar- en televisiespeletjies; Rekenaarprogrammering; Sing; Skilder; Tuinmaak |
Sport Betrokkenheid: |
'n Kantlynkyker |
Sport: |
Boogskiet; Gewigsoefeninge; Hang- / Skermsweef; Kanovaart; Krygskunde; Liggaamsbou; Skaak; Skubaduik; Snorkelduik; Surfski / Kajak; Visvang; Vlieg / Sweefvlieg; Voëlkyk |
Kook: |
Ek is mal daaroor! |
Kookkuns: |
Frans; Indies; Italiaans; Japannees; Seekos; Sjinees; Soesji; Thai; Viëtnamees |
Uiteet: |
Ek eet 'n paar keer per maand uit |
Dieetbeperkings : |
Ek het geen |
Lewenspas: |
Woes |
Tyd by die Werk: |
Ek werk altyd oortyd |
Tydverdryf keuses: |
Tyd spandeer in die buitelug |
Tyd Aanlyn: |
Ek is meer aanlyn as van lyn af |
Familie Grootte: |
Ek het 'n suster |
Familie Nouheid: |
Ons is gebroke |
Verhoudingstipes: |
Ek is net enkellopend |
Gewillig Om Te Verhuis: |
Vir die regte persoon, na die maan! |
Diere: |
Ek's lief vir my troeteldier(e) |
Troeteldiere (Het): |
Hond(e) |
Troeteldiere (Hou van): |
Voël(s); Kat(te); Visse; Reptiel(e); Ander; Perd(e) |
Prikkels: |
Selfgeldend; Liggaamsdeurboring(s); Erotika; Flankering; Intelligensie; Langhare; Liefde toon in die publiek; Mag; Naakbaai; Tatoeëermerke |
Afsitters: |
Sarkasme; Sensasiesoeker; Rykdom |
Werk Verwagtinge: |
Nuwe, meer betekenisvolle werk vind |
Godsdienstige Bywoning: |
Nooit |
Droomhuis: |
'n Boomhuis in die woud |
Politiek: |
Matig |
Aftreeplanne: |
Woon in 'n stil hut in die woud |
Gevoel omtrent die gebruik van DatingBuzz: |
Nuuskierig; Afgestomp |
Eerlikheid: |
Uiters |