In His Own Words
About Him
I am not religious, but strongly spiritual and follow my instincts and callings to where people, life and events take me. Based on experiences, I believe there is a often larger force or destiny out there that draws us to certain events, places and the people we meet .
I admire people that have been able to put material needs and wealth aside to follow their callings and spiritual paths, wherever that may take them.
I believe that positive energy and thought has a profound impact upon your outlook and well being in life. Make peace with the present and be happy for the present.
I am mildly eccentric in my work, social habits, generally unconventional and hate routine. My work is based on financial consulting and education. I enjoy giving something back where possible .
In my free time I travel a lot, enjoy boardgame evenings, play sport, wild birds and nurturing them, fine wining/dining/braaing and although not musically gifted, try to work on my music everyday if I can.
Its difficult to find words to summarise myself but if I had to list my top few traits to describe they would be: youthful, dynamic, warm, cheerful, sensitive, emotional, committed and intellectual. I am a dreamer, romantic and idealist - mixed in with large doses of reality as needed. I am unmaterialistic and enjoy the qualitative things in life over the quantitative,trying to stay humble and becoming a better person.
About His Ideal Match
I am an old style down to earth guy. I love communication and being able to express myself to my partner and be expressed to.
I get on with just about everyone but ideally I would like a women who is caring, unspoilt, down to earth, thoughtful and a good communicator. Someone free, cheerful, playful, warm, healing ,spirited and compassionate. An individual who can take what they can from city life but not get caught up in the pretensions, consumerisms and other negatives that subtley work beneath its surface. Someone who is secure in her own being but who also accepts the fact we are all human and have our faults. To love someone is to accept someone for all their strengths and weaknesses and that we are just trying our best.
A fun loving and life loving person who knows how to over do it, as well as doing it over !
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Monte Vista), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
191cm (6' 3.2") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Russian | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 38 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
American Football; Backgammon; Basketball; Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Fishing; Hiking; Rugby; Soccer; Table Tennis; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
I don't speak to my family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
