wachintonka

44 – Port Elizabeth (Suburb? a decent one ^^), Eastern Cape, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Port Elizabeth (Suburb? a decent one ^^), Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
44
Star Sign:
Virgo
Height:
179cm (5' 10.5")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Agnostic
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Port Elizabeth (Eastern Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 40
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
150cm (4' 11.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Slightly important
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Ok, "touchy" subjects first:

Ironically, the biggest deal is made about what I care least about. I'm not religious - an agnostic atheist. What this means is if I'm asked if there's a god, I will say: "I don't know". When asked if I "believe" in god, I will say: "no, there's no proof" Do I care what religion you are? Not really - long as you don't try "save me" or worse, dress up as a friggin bee-keeper. This "one" life is all we have. Enjoy it.

Intelligence - high - apparently a genius ^^. I lack a bit of common sense at times (can be a bit clumsy), but I usually spring back when I've had time to ponder. My #1 pet irk is stupid people. My general knowledge is excellent, but as far as "current" affairs go, depending on work, I can go 3 months without paying attention to local events.

Witty? Extremely. Entertaining? Most certainly. Tactful? um, working on it.

Race - If you're not white, I'm not interested. I'm not racist - that term is silly - we are all part of the human race. I find non-whites about as sexually attractive as I would another guy. It's a sexual preference, not an ethnic thing.

Sex - I like it, enjoy it, good at it, want it. If you don't, we have a problem. Sex is a recreational activity. Yes, believe it or not, friends can have sex. Most women I've dated are still on good terms. If you have any hangups over sex, we're not going to last. "Love" is an emotional thing. Sex is fun - and, like milk, it's good for you :P

"If it feels good, doesn't hurt anyone or yourself, then do it". Life is too short not too & yes, I enjoy cuddling next to a naked woman.

Drugs - I don't do them. Don't bring them to my house. Will taste wine & like an odd glass, but will take fruit juice over beer anytime.

Emo - I'm content in life. "It's better to be content & alone than miserable with someone else". Don't make me miserable.

Sport - Watching sport is dull. Whether golf/rugby. I don't like "cliques" & hate team sports or clubs. I get bored of the monotony. If that's your thing, fine - it's not mine.

(cont)

About His Ideal Match

(Continued - thought I'd just include both in one)

Physique - I'm average build, have slight flab on the stomach. More of an "undertone". Most certainly not overweight, certainly not fat. Sexually attractive? Most certainly. I eat healthy, am active all day (don't sit behind a desk). Did I mention I was sexy? ^^ Witty & entertaining too.

If you are fat, um, we can just be friends. "Fat" is my 2nd pet irk. Especially fat people who complain they can't lose weight. 100% guaranteed weight loss tip: "eat less & exercise"

Just to clarify: being "out of shape" is not fat. Women tend to put on a bit of weight in some spots as they get older - this is not unattractive. You don't have to be a supermodel, just "average", but "huge" doesn't do it sexually for me. And #1 - it is important that you are comfortable with your body. This disqualifies anorexics too.

Non clingy - I'm not a guy who likes pubs, or night out with the boys, but I like my own time to work or play. I don't believe a relationship is "one" entity doing things. They are two people with separate lives who enjoy doing things together. I'm content with my own company. Not looking to be "completed". I'm already in one piece.

Trust - I trust my mate, so if you ever want to do your own thing, have your own circle of friends, I'm okay with that. I don't "have" to be friends with them either. My trust is a once-off deal: If you ever betray me, waste my time, play games with me, you will be on your own very quickly.

Money - I'm well off, financially secure - have own business, and successful. I don't however believe in keeping up with the Jones' or spending money unnecessarily. The Jones' are mortgaged up to their eye-balls. I am not. I can buy what I want. My material needs are simple, though.

Lastly, I may appear arrogant to some. I'm not. I am, however, confident, blunt & honest. There is a difference. I'm just a mellow, easy going, relaxed guy who knows what he wants.

Hmmm? What else? You'll have to ask, I guess.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short; Straight; Well-behaved; Disappearing
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Books:
Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books
Sports:
Camping; Chess; Hiking; Mountain biking; Scuba diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Table Tennis
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
Less than once a week
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I enjoy it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Religious Attendance:
Never
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Very