In His Own Words
About Him
The Invitation It doesnt interest me what you do for a living I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your hearts longing It doesnt interest me how old you are I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dream for the adventure of being alive It doesnt interest me what planets are squaring your moon I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow if you have been opened by lifes betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful to be realistic to remember the limitations of being human It doesnt interest me if the story you are telling me is true I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day And if you can source your own life from its presence I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon Yes It doesnt interest me to know where you live or how much money you have I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children It doesnt interest me who you know or how you came to be here I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back It doesnt interest me where or what or with whom you have studied I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments
About His Ideal Match
Must Be a fun love kind of person not to Shy because I am kind of Shy Must love the out door life and sport like swining and cycling
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Roodepoort (Horison), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
26 - 40 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
Fantasy; Religious; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Cycling; Horse Riding; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Indian; Italian; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Honesty: |
Very |