In His Own Words
About Him
Although I am a smoker I keep fit playing squash and excercise regularly. My passion is snow skiing and have taught skiing for many years. I am tall (6'2" / 1.88m) and slim. Dress for the occasion and enjoy humour. Love kids (could'nt eat a whole one though). I am a fairly extreme sportsman who broke a nail playing tiddly winks. Professionally I am a Systems Analyst so I am very familiar with technology. My forte is software and not hardware so please do not ask me out to fix your computer :)
I have written a book of quotes under the name of Kayete which I titled "Willing is a Choice" and it comprises my values in a nutshell. It is a series of quotes that I have created over the years and has 2 sections in it. REALationships and enCOURAGEments and outline my thoughts rather succinctly. My favourite quotes...
"You will find many reasons why you can't... look for the ONE reason why you CAN!"
"The opportunities that you missed... were caught by others!"
As for me I am a hopless romantic so I would prefer to meet like-minded women. I am honest to fault, not a player, and certainly not a philanderer...
About His Ideal Match
I have no idea what I am looking for. I will know when I experience it. Until then I will just fantasize about the perfect 10. A sense of humour would go a long way. Weight is an issue though. Forgive me if I seem a little arrogant but medical conditions, depression and bearing of children are not reasons for being grossly overweight. Whilst I do not mind full bodied women, if you are fat then math determines that you eat too much. You cannot put on 5kg of weight by eating 1 kg of food. Sorry to be blunt but honesty is good start to any relationship. Is'nt it? Well!!! ISN'T IT? Hmmm... That is going to limit my responses!
I have received a little abuse for my weight comments and some of them may be fair... One person who spends her time gazing at the moon had this to say to me... "oh please. get over yourself. Of all the unattractive, borning men on this site, you totally win first prize as the biggest loser." - Now, besides not being able to spell BORING this young lady is "curvaceous"... Hmmm... Maybe I deserved those comments... What do you think?
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban (Glenwood), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
72 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
188cm (6' 2.0") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; German | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Durban (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
52 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Chess; Horse Riding; Rugby; Skiing; Snowboarding; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Volleyball; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; French; German; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |