In His Own Words
About Him
Many people don't want to hear the truth. They are comfortable with lies and flattery. Please skip me. I don't do false.
I am honest, and straight forward to the core. I am emotionally mature and I don't carry baggage into a new relationship.
Yes, I had my share of hurts, picked up the pieces of my broken heart a few times, and even been cheated on by the one I thought never will. But it made me stronger. It made me value myself higher than anyone else. I am not arrogant. I am very down-to-earth, but I know what I had. And I don't want that ever again.
Do I know what I want? Yes. Nothing. I don't need a wife. I don't need a mistress. I need a friend; a female friend. One I can learn to trust, one that I can call my bestie. And if something more than friendship comes thereafter, know that I will not ask you to marry me, nor will I move in with you. If you can grow old with your boyfriend, that will be as far as I will commit at this point in my life.
About His Ideal Match
I want someone who is willing to sleep under newspapers and cardboard boxes in the street, just to be with me. Yes, I am not looking for someone. I am looking for the only one.
One that can communicate. Not hide crap for 4 years and then say it's over; it's not working.
One that likes the outdoors, even in the rain and wind.
One that likes to go to sleezy pubs and upmarket restaurants all the same.
One that is willing to try anything at least once.
One that is willing to drink until the bar closes but also willing to sit for 5 hours watching a movie with me.
One that can handle life's little potholes, and the comets in the same stylish fashion.
And if you have your own views and opinions, and can have a decent conversation on just about anything, including politics and religion, without getting into the tow-truck, then you could be that one in 10 million people I would love to meet.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Wolseley, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Namibia; South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
39 - 54 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Gemini; Cancer; Virgo; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 174cm (5' 8.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I hate it |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Interests: |
Meditation; Photography |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Hiking; Horse Riding; Mountain biking; Shooting; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Table Tennis; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Rodent(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Extremely |