In His Own Words
About Him
Om eerlik te wees, voel dit vir my baie weird om myself in ’n kort paragraaf te beskryf net soos om ’n tuxedo gym toe te dra🤗
Ek is ’n Godvresende, doelgerigte en gemaklik-onafhanklike man. Ek volg nie die crowd nie; ek volg my geloof. Ek heg waarde aan stil krag en diepgaande doelgerigtheid bo die geraas van wêreldse denke. Ek soek ’n maat wat selfversekerd is in haar eie pad en gereed is om ’n lewe van avontuur, respek en geestelike groei te deel. Ek glo daaraan om tyd te neem om dinge reg te doen—ek het baie geduld en is altyd bereid om die nodige werk in te sit vir dit wat werklik saak maak.
Ps. Ek is eintlik ’n goeie gesprekgenoot, maar ek het tans ’n vaste afspraak as ’n voltydse konsultant vir my 4-jarige neef se slaap-skedule. Hy is ’n taai kliënt, maar hy gee my gewoonlik ’n vrypas as ek beplan om die aand langarm te gaan dans of iets onverwags te doen.....🤣🤣
About His Ideal Match
Ek soek nie net iemand om die spasie langs my te vul nie🥴, maar iemand wat my wêreld 'n bietjie helderder laat lyk. Ek soek daardie vrou wat my kan laat lag totdat my maag seer is, maar wat ook die stilte saam met my kan waardeer. Iemand met ’n vrolike gees wat nie bang is om spontaan in die reen om die bakkie te dans nie (al trap ons op mekaar se tone).
Vir my is intimiteit meer as net ’n woord; dit is die klein dingetjies—die manier hoe ons mekaar verstaan sonder woorde, die ondersteuning deur dik en dun, en daardie opregte konneksie wat mens net een keer in ’n leeftyd vind.🤔 Ek soek ’n maat wat my uitdaag om ’n beter man te wees, terwyl sy weet sy is veilig en gekoester in my arms🫂.
Ek moet jou net waarsku: as ons eers begin dans en die musiek is reg,(En daar is geen hael nie)🤣 is my enigste swakheid dat ek dink ek is 'n "pro" — so wees asseblief geduldig laggend as my passies meer entoesiasties as akkuraat is!. Just a man🤣
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
Any | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Optimistic; Stable |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Business; Religious; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Motoring; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Making Music |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Camping; Dancesport; Gymnastics; Motorsport; Scuba diving |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |