In His Own Words
About Him
A recent public profile picture and speaking the same home A recent public profile picture and speaking the same home language is a requirement, or don’t waste our time.
I'm mostly an indoors person who enjoys messing around on the computer or one of my indoor hobbies. I am happy as a bachelor but feel the need for company and some different indoor activities.
My hobbies and interests are using my Apple computer for a myriad of uses in the home as well as amateur radio being my next biggest interest. Not knowing the workings or wanting to combine computer and amateur radio results in multiple searches and reading of mailing lists. I also have a stamp collection that needs a major overall and am also interested in mechanical working of non-essential equipment. My interest in sport is watching a Springbok game with a cold beer and a braai and a regular bit of RunWalk for life or walking my dogs.
Relaxation usually is used to read and learn more on the Internet about my interest and/or operate my amateur radio equipment and soon hopefully be able to make contacts all over the world.
My outlook on life is baby steps, make the most of what you are given and No, you can’t fix stupid, and we all have these moments!
You made a choice or decision to view my profile as you would any book cover. Instead of wondering about how it might be, let's be honest and meet for coffee/tea in a busy shop and see if a patient, honest, supportive, loyal, intelligent, responsible and compassionate, romantic who is cuddly to boot, with loads of love and warmth to share, could be a friend!
What have you got to lose?
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking first for a friend.
A friend with whom I can have an intelligent conversation.
A friend who takes me for me.
A friend who likes the odd rugby game on TV over a weekend but who is not a sports nut or has to be at the trendiest spot on the social calendar every weekend.
A friend with cooking interests.
Someone I can trust with all my heart and with whom I can share everything, my triumphs, my fears, my fantasies, my dreams.
A woman to whom I feel attracted, whom I can put my arm around, not battle to get around.
A woman friend who might meet me somewhere quiet to sip a bottle of wine, cuddle in my arms, whilst we solve the world’s problems or talk rubbish while the sun sets.
A woman whose company I can grow to love whilst exploring the wide open spaces, watching movies, playing board games/cards or crying on each other's shoulders.
A woman who is true. I am not interested in relationship games or lies. If you hold back because of past experiences, tell me and I am willing to at least try to assist you in overcoming whatever it may be.
A woman who, if the chemistry/sparkle is there, wants me to be with her more, it’s her choice.
Without chemistry, friendship stays at the odd coffee, meal or whatever we want to do during our time.
If you are in my area and have a recent PUBLIC picture on the site, are the right age(within reason), add me to your favourites or send me a message and lets take it from there.
I Challenge YOU to face the world and show your possible suitors what you look like, you will undoubtedly win.
You look at the cover of a book before opening it, so at least let me see your cover before I might show an interest.
If your profile pic shows you like a bean-pole don't meet me carrying the weight of a Japanese Sumo wrestler.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Tokai), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
185cm (6' 0.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Southern Peninsula; Southern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 184cm (6' 0.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have a hearing impairment |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Soap operas |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |