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notlyh

48 – Southern Suburbs (Tokai), Cape Town, South Africa

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Southern Suburbs (Tokai), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
48
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
185cm (6' 0.8")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Southern Peninsula; Southern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
30 - 47
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English; None
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Haven't completed high / secondary school; High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Please have a recent profile picture I can see or don’t waste your time.
I am a tall, dark haired patient, supportive, loyal, intelligent, technically adept including being able to use almost anything electric, including my least favourite of the vacuum cleaner/iron . Just an honest, responsible, compassionate, romantic man who is cuddly to boot!

I love intelligent company. I am a member of Lions International. Love using technology to improve business.

If we click, you’ll be mine and I’ll be yours. I be with you as much as you want me and hope the reverse is true.

I take my dogs to a local forest almost daily and whilst they try and catch squirrels I have a quick walk under the trees.

I'm mostly an indoors person who enjoys messing around on the computer or one of my indoor hobbies. I am more than happy as a bachelor but feel the need for company and some different activities. I want to be with you whilst we complete the activities together. Whether it's coffee or lunch somewhere after a road-trip or just sitting together.

Outdoor living/camping was enjoying a game lodge but the prices have gone out of reach. I am quite happy with some home comforts and maybe chatting around a braai or playing cards/board game with you as company.
Not to say I don't enjoy a picnic in the outdoors or a cuddle under a blanket while we watch the sun set.

I watch what I eat and will tackle most things on the hoof way before something from the sea, although a good Hake and Chips can't be beat. This helps keep the Size 32-34 jeans fitting comfortably.

My cooking skills are elementary and open for lots more training, but I have been known to cook up the odd meal on rare occassions.

My mother lives with me as I am her retirement plan as homes are for people who don't have a garden.

There's way more to tell, and lots for me to find out about you, so add me to your favourites, possibly drop me a message and lets take it from there.
We are both stuck on this dating site so lets break the ice.
What have you got to lose?

About His Ideal Match

I'm looking first for a friend. From friend possibly to a responsible, safe lover and even possible life partner.

A friend with whom I can have an intelligent conversation.
A friend who takes me for me.
A friend who likes the odd rugby game on TV over a weekend but who is not a sports nut or has to be at the trendiest spot on the social calendar every weekend.
A friend with cooking interests.
Someone I can trust with all my heart and with whom I can share everything, my triumphs, my fears, my fantasies, my dreams.
A woman to whom I feel attracted, whom I can put my arm around, not battle to get around.

A woman friend who might meet me somewhere quiet to sip a bottle of wine to sit in my arms, whilst we talk rubbish while the sun sets.
A woman to whose company I can grow to love whilst exploring the wide open spaces, watching movies, or crying on each other's shoulders.
A woman who is true. I am not interested in relationship games or lies. Be able to devote some time for us, no-one else around. It might be for a chat about something bothering either of us, it might just be to cuddle/kiss but it is our time, not to be disturbed. If you hold back because of past experiences, tell me and I am willing to at least try to assist you in overcoming whatever it may be.

A woman who, if the chemistry/sparkle is there, wants me to be with her more.

It would be a pity if the intimate thing is not for you, but then friends is where we leave it for the odd coffee, meal or whatever we want to do during our time.

If you are in my area and have a recent PUBLIC picture on the site, are the right age(within reason), add me to your favourites or send me a message and lets take it from there. Face up to the world and show your possible suitors what you look like. If I contact you don't ban, challenge!
You look at the cover of a book before opening it, so at least let me see your cover before I possibly show an interest.
If your profile pic shows you like a bean-pole don't meet me carrying the weight of a Japanese Sumo wrestler.

What His Friends Say

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have a hearing impairment
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
A leather biker's jacket
Favourite Colour:
Green
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Science / Technology
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Soap operas
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online.
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Yoga
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I can't or won't cook
Food:
Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Get promoted
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Moderate
Feelings about using DatingBuzz:
Hopeful; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely