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Online: Monday

Modified: Monday

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Southern Suburbs (Tokai), Cape Town, South Africa
Star Sign:
185cm (6' 0.8")
Body Type:
Ask me later
Hair Colour:
Eye Colour:
Home Language:
Other Languages:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Occasional Drinker
Some University / College

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Other; South Africa; Virgin Islands (British); United Kingdom
Southern Peninsula; Southern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa)
Age Range:
30 - 40
Star Sign:
Aries; Taurus; Gemini; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces
160cm (5' 3.0") - 183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Has a Photo:
Home Language:
Other Languages:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced
Have Children:
Want Children:
No; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Sorry only white women need apply.

I am a tall, dark haired patient, supportive, honest and responsible, compassionate romantic man who is cuddly to boot!

When I get your call for assistance, I will be there, ALWAYS.

I'm not much of a fitness fundi but do walk my dogs daily. I really want to get back on a bicycle after a 20yr rest as I have the leg muscles for it. I guess getting a bicycle is a good idea :)

My outdoor living/camping was enjoying a game lodge but the prices have gone out of reach.
Consequently just give me a my home comforts, good company, good food and a good setting and I'm happy. Not to say I don't enjoy a picnic in the outdoors or a cuddle under a blanket, provided there is no 'mountaineering' to get to the picnic spot.

As I indicated, the home comforts and maybe chatting around a braai fire or playing a game with you as company.

I watch what I eat and will tackle most things on the hoof way before something from the sea, although a good Hake and Chips can't be beaten. Looking after what I eat helps keep the Size 38 jeans fitting comfortably.

My cooking skills are open for lots more training, but I have been known to cook up the odd meal here and there.

I am curious and interested and love helping people.

There's way more to tell, and lots for me to find out about you, so add me to your favourites and have a fairly recent public photo, and lets take it from there. Not just a Quickie, but maybe friends with the odd kiss and cuddle possibly moving to a more serious relationship? What have you got to lose? We are both stuck on this dating site so lets break the ice and share a conversation or meet for a coffee or meal.

Who knows where it goes, if anywhere. Chemistry may lead us together, otherwise we can just be friends, with or without benefits.

What have you got to lose?

About His Ideal Match

I need a woman in my life.
I'm looking for a friend with benefits who is prepared to take whatever steps are necessary for us to enjoy full sexual contact, when we want it, but not have the issue of pregnancy. A woman who is a friend whom I can grow to love whilst exploring the wide open spaces, watching movies, or crying on each other's shoulders
Someone to whom I feel attracted
Someone I can trust with all my heart and with whom I can share everything, my fears, my dreams.
A friend with whom I can have an intelligent conversation
A friend who might meet me somewhere quiet to sip a bottle of wine to sit in my arms, and talk rubbish while the sun sets.
A friend who takes me for me
A friend who likes the odd rugby game on TV over a weekend but who is not a sports nut or has to be at the trendiest spot on the social calendar every weekend.
Someone to put my arm around, not battle to get around.
A friend who is true. I am not interested in relationship games or lies.

A woman who, if the chemistry/sparkle is there, wants me to be with her more, to hold her, even if just a hand while we walk or a hand to caress her, love her intimately.

It would be a pity if the intimate thing is not for you, but then friends is where we leave it for the odd coffee, meal or whatever we want to do during our time, hopefully growing toward becoming more intimate.

If you are in my area and have a recent PUBLIC picture on the site, are the right age, add me to your favourites or send me a message and lets take it from there.

I'm serious, if you are going to take this whole friendship/dating thing seriously, then face up to the world and show your possible friends/suitors what you look like. Women who don't have pictures don't bother .....
You look at the cover of a book before opening it, so at least let me see your cover before I show an interest.

What His Friends Say

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
I have a hearing impairment
Hair Style:
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Favourite Clothing:
A leather biker's jacket
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Science / Technology
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Soap operas
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi
Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Yoga
Cricket; Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Current Relationship:
I'm single
I enjoy it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Pets (Like):
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Get promoted
Dream Home:
Castle in Scotland
Religious Attendance:
Feelings about using DatingBuzz:
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic